The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else right? Uh-uh sweetheart, so fucking wrong. The best way to get over someone is to find yourself, heal yourself and get clear on what you want.
Recently it was my 33rd birthday – it feels like a special number don’t you think? I’m a bit of a “sign-from-the-Universe” kind of a girl so any sequences or patterns of numbers showing up in my life feels like a good omen to me.
It seems that when most of us think of pleasure we pretty immediately shift to sex or food. But pleasure is a feeling of satisfaction or enjoyment and what I am advocating for is pleasure in ordinary moments. Getting turned on by turning on your senses (we have them for a reason ladies).
Self-love. It’s a phrase (or hashtag) that gets thrown around a lot these days; “love your body“, “treat yo’ self“. But, self love can be a tough pill to swallow. I mean you’re telling me all I have to do to practice this is keep my self talk positive?
The top photo was taken 3 years before my son was born. The bottom picture was taken 12 weeks after Beauden was born. I hated my body equally in both photos. In the first photo, I was trying my absolute hardest to look “skinny”. I genuinely loathed the body I wore.